What is Swinging according to Wikipedia

Swinging (the English word swing means swing) is a lifestyle that involves participation in sexual activities where more than one partner is involved. A participant in swinging is called a swinger . The term partner exchange is also used, especially if the participants are established couples.

Swinging is not limited to partners of the opposite sex. There is room for women in particular to live out a bisexuality, while for men it is generally not seen as not as common. People who only explore their bisexual side in the context of swingers can be called "party bi".

Swinging can include the following activities:

• Exhibitionism: Allowing others to watch while performing a sexual act.
• Voyeurism: Watching others perform a sexual act.
• Partner change: That a couple who have a sexual relationship temporarily change sexual partners with another couple who have a sexual relationship. It can be anything from kisses, caresses and oral sex to complete intercourse.
• Group sex: A sexual activity involving more than two people.
• Soft swinging: Kisses, caresses and frequent oral sex count as this.
• Wife swapping: Means that a man lends his wife to a man who is visiting him, usually in exchange for the man being allowed to borrow the other's wife in return. It is also possible to say that the wife replaces her husband with another man.

Swingers clubs or sex clubs are clubs where swingers meet to socialize and have sex. Swingers clubs are found all over the world and in several places in Sweden. Swingers clubs where you go in pairs of women and men are called couples clubs, but most of them today have so-called mixed nights when both singles and couples are welcome. Membership is usually required to enter a club. Several clubs have been noticed in the media, e.g. Couples in hearts in Stockholm, Club Adam & Eva in Norrköping and Club Amante in Gothenburg. Wanda's Swing in Gothenburg has set aside certain days of the week for just guys, and others for women and men.

Swingers parties are similar to swingers clubs but, as the name suggests, have more of a private party character. It is most common to go there in pairs in a woman-man relationship, but some swingers parties can also be open to singles. The key party is a swinging phenomenon from the 50s and 70s, where chance decides who goes home with whom. All representatives of one gender put their house or car keys in a bowl and the other gender draws a random key.

Nude baths sometimes function as meeting places for swingers and it happens that you have sex in a secluded place outdoors, adjacent to the bath.

Subgroups:

Dogging is a British term for swinging and is a phenomenon with different variations of sex outdoors or in parked cars in front of the eyes of strangers and sometimes even with them. Since some time ago, the phenomenon also exists in Sweden. The word "dogging" seems to come from those who claim to just "walk the dog", but are actually looking for something else. Around Europe there are a number of famous so-called dogging places, which are visited by people after dark, so that they can engage in voyeurism and exhibitionism or participate in group sex.

Hotwife: In a cuckold relationship (see below) where the woman has other lovers with her husband's consent, the woman is called the Hot Wife . A variant of the Hot Wife phenomenon is when two men take turns satisfying one's woman and where, for example, the second man takes over immediately, as soon as the first man's orgasm is achieved. Thus, one man recovers while the other is active and the woman has continuous intercourse.

Cuckolding is when one partner in the relationship (usually the woman) has one or more lovers and the other partner (x) is submissive and may even help with the preparations, the choice of lovers and arranging meetings between the woman and the lover(s).

(x) lives in complete fidelity to his woman/husband and also enjoys knowing that the partner has other lovers and even watching. However, this may deviate and the woman also acts alone in some cases and the man may possibly find out about activities afterwards. If applicable, the woman can come home with the lover's sperm in her vagina, after which the man gives oral sex to the woman and consumes the lover's semen, called "Cuckold cleanup". Said "Cleanup" also occurs in direct connection to the lover's ejaculation and/or when the lover has left the room.

So it is not about infidelity or the woman/man going behind her husband's back, but about a game where the woman/man has other lovers for various reasons and with the other's knowledge.

Cuckolding does not have to involve sexual humiliation, but can represent an opportunity to live out a fantasy, fulfill a desire, or a sexual experience that cannot normally be obtained within the normal limits of a relationship.

Stag-Vixen : A stag-vixen relationship involves a variant of cuckolding , but without any element of humiliation. The relationship means that the woman in the relationship ( vixen ) is emotionally faithful to her husband ( stag ), but sexually available to other men. The man in the relationship may be involved or only aware of his vixen's other relationships.

A vixen often marks her availability to other men by wearing an anklet.