Prejudices about swingers clubs
There are many prejudices about swingers clubs and some for good reason.
There is a big difference between good and bad swingers clubs, so it's just a matter of choosing the right swingers club for you.
- Prejudice: It's only older single men at swingers clubs
Men of all ages visit swingers clubs and of course also older people but some clubs have an age limit. Many swingers clubs also have different themes on different days, for example on certain days single men are not welcome.
Some swingers clubs also have special nights for only young swingers or only for couples.
Most of the clubs keep a good eye on their visitors and if someone breaks the swingers club's rules, they will quickly not be welcome in the club anymore.
2. Prejudice: Many strange types in swinger clubs and seedy environment
Seasoned swingers value that the swingers club maintains a high standard for the premises and its visitors. Swingers clubs with poor standards soon get a bad reputation among swingers.
A luxurious environment is part of the concept of the swinger lifestyle, and every visit to a swingers club should breathe luxury and flair and an escape from the gray everyday life.
A good swingers club has on its website information about the dress code, various events, the club's rules and pictures of the club.
Many swingers' clubs also have a members' forum where the club's members and visitors can, for example, write about how their visit to the club has been.
3. Prejudice: You as a woman are jumped on by all men
Within the swinger world and at all swinger clubs there are rules on how to behave in a swinger environment. A great deal of importance is placed on interaction between the visitors. You ask first, get consent before doing something, show respect, a no is always a no, etc.
Alcohol consumption in a swingers club is also clearly less than in other regular nightclubs and sobriety ensures a better and safer environment, especially for the women.
4. You risk your reputation
Discretion at swingers clubs is a matter of course.
What happens at the swingers club stays at the swingers club.
Many are nervous about meeting people they know and do not want to meet in a swinger context. But remember that the people you meet are there for the same reason as you.
There are swingers who are completely open about the fact that they are swingers to those around them, while others want to keep their swinger life a secret due to work or family reasons. This must always be respected and again, what happens at the swingers club stays at the swingers club.
5. Prejudice: Couples who are swingers are not in love
This is something that many non-swingers believe about couples who are swingers and that these have problems in their relationship which they try to solve by visiting swingers clubs.
But for swingers, there is a clear difference between love and sex. You can have sex with others and be in love with your partner. Many non-swingers have a strong desire to have sex with others and many are unfaithful to their partner. Whereas swingers often have more trust in their partner and are more open about what they have fantasies about and want to experience. This in turn leads to less infidelity among swingers than among non-swingers.
