Swingers club or private swingers parties

Many swingers visit both swinger clubs and private swinger parties.

Some prefer swingers clubs and others prefer private swingers parties.

Although there are many similarities, there are also many differences between swinger clubs and private swinger parties.

Some swingers think that private swinger parties are more intimate where sex is not the only thing that is in focus, but socializing with other swingers is part of the experience.

If you prefer swingers clubs, it is important to choose the right club and that it is a swingers club that suits you.

Coming to a swingers club can be nervous and edgy as you don't know who else is coming. Maybe it turns out that there are many interesting and attractive swingers who come or maybe no one of interest comes and you choose to hang out with your partner during the evening.

At private swinger parties, you usually have a better idea of ​​who the other participants are. The atmosphere becomes more intimate than at a swingers club. The parties can be anything from a few participants to a few tens of participants and can be at someone's home or a venue that has been arranged.

Many swingers get to know each other and also hang out privately and invite each other to various swinger parties. It is a world where many people know each other and many have swinger friends in common.

Some may be seasoned swingers while others are beginners. Regardless of whether you are at a swingers club or a private swingers party, as a new swinger you can count on all the other swingers to show understanding and have themselves been new swingers once upon a time.

It is perfectly ok as a new swinger to start passively and just join in watching and just have sex with your own partner and then get more used to it and dare more at the next club visit or party.

At private swingers parties, you usually start by mingling and getting to know each other as at a normal non-swingers party. The difference is that there is usually a more expectant atmosphere at a swingers party as the participants know what is to come.

A charm of swinger parties is the thrill before you start swinging. Check out the other participants, see who you are interested in, flirt and give each other glances and build a great atmosphere.

Most often it is a majority of couples at private swingers parties but also single men and single women. Many swinger women are interested in other women while other swinger women are interested in single men and then it can be good to invite extra swinger men to the party.

When the social phase is over, it's a transition to the sexier part of the party. Sometimes it can be a bit nervous who and how to start and then a game can be a good ice breaker. Or that it was agreed before that someone should take the first step and start, then the other participants hang on.

If there is the possibility of a bath or sauna, this is a good transition from being clothed to undressing for a bath or sauna. And then once the clothes are off, the step is not far to the next step.

Before signing up for a swingers party, it can be good to know who and how many are invited. What profiles the participants have on different contact pages where you can then check each other's profiles and get to know each other and write to each other. Or why not a chat group where participants can chat with each other before the party.

It is also good to know beforehand if you should bring your own drinks and food, bath towels, condoms etc. Or if the party has a special theme such as everyone having to wear some type of mask.

Even if it is possible to stay overnight or if there is a good hotel nearby, it is good to know.

When the participants have mingled for a while, it is not entirely wrong for the participants to tell a little more about their experiences and their wishes for the evening. 

Regardless of whether you visit a private swingers party or a swingers club, you usually get a wonderful memory for life and get to know other swingers with whom you can keep in touch between parties and club visits. This can lead to couple dates at each other's houses or to couples inviting an extra man or woman home.