Swinger rules

Couples who have never experienced swinging may find it a challenging thing to do. Many also believe that it gives both men and women the impression that they are leaving their partner with someone else, which is irresponsible. The main thing in this consists of couples acting incomprehensibly. Actually, there are things that can prevent such an unwanted situation. Therefore, in order not to encounter these situations and to maintain a healthy relationship and sex life, it is strongly recommended that couples decide some rules for themselves for each individual personally and always follow them.

Why should you have rules for?

There are several reasons to talk about rules for swinger couples. MOST couples want to avoid damaging their relationship with their partner because of a sex adventure. For this reason, partners in the relationship communicate to each other all situations that may make them uncomfortable. Then they usually list the things they don't want their partner to do in their swinger actions. That way, both parties avoid the risk of damaging the relationship after the swinger experience by setting rules.

Common swinger rules

In this episode we will talk about some common swinger rules to give you an idea and possibly to use some of these rules in your relationship.

* Use code words. The experience can be overwhelming and uncomfortable for you or your partner, especially if you're new to the lifestyle. Therefore, it is important to choose some code words that can mean discomfort, pleasure, pain or other situations. By doing this, partners can easily inform each other of what they are feeling at the moment.

* Don't belittle your partner. This is one of the most common rules for swinger couples. Never belittle your partner in front of other people, especially if it's about how good or bad they are in bed. Also, avoid asking about the other person's partner. Another thing, your partner doesn't have to take one for the team. If both you and your partner don't like the other party, don't insist on swinging with them. Swinger lifestyle is about fairness.

* Do not drink too much. In swinger games, this rule is very important. Drinking too much is never a good idea. There are many negative consequences of drinking too much. You can make the situation uncomfortable for your partner by breaking the rules that you both have previously established. Also, you can make the other party uncomfortable by losing control and acting in a way they don't want. So don't drink a lot of alcohol.

Breaking swinger rules

We already mentioned about breaking the swinger rules in the previous section so let's talk about the subject a little more. As we've already discussed, couples set these rules to protect their relationship from potential harm. And many of these rules deal with sensitive topics. Therefore, by breaking these rules, the individual jeopardizes their relationship. What to do if your partner breaks the swinger rules? The first thing you should look for is a clear argument and communication about the topic. Ask about potential reasons and explanations for their actions. Talk things out if you can to keep your relationship together. If not, you have the choice. As much as it is important to have swinger rules for couples, breaking them is just as risky.